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Victor's avatar

I’m a big fan of Jordan Peterson. Do I agree with everything he say’s? Of course not. I can disagree with anyone without being disagreeable 😉

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Whenever anyone becomes widely reviled (rightly or wrongly), there's always a lot of exaggeration and misrepresentation that makes it difficult to sort out what's deserved or not. To that end, I appreciate that you grappled with some of the nuance around what he did or didn't say or mean.

But past that, I think it's pretty fair for people to dislike him or roll their eyes at him even just based on the things here. I am someone who is also concerned with the medicalization of young people who are often not even trans or not able to meaningfully consent to dangerous or irreversible treatments; I also think the rulings about things like "sweetie" are draconian; I also think the fat-positivity movement overstates its health claims. But every time someone argues something in a hotheaded or asshole-ish way, it hurts the substance of the argument in the public perception. And while I appreciate his less controversial ideas have helped some people, they're nothing especially groundbreaking that can't be found elsewhere.

So I wouldn't unsub from you over interviewing him or anything. I just don't think he's a very good spokesperson for the things he cares about, and I'm annoyed he taints important conversations with his poor emotional regulation so that it's even harder to persuade anyone of nuance. It doesn't matter if there is something more complex to his ideas about trans people if "this trans person is a narcissist for sharing themselves with the public" is how the idea is conveyed to the majority of people. Saying an overweight model is basically unattractive dooms any conversation about potential downsides to carrying extra weight or whether it's ethical to tell the public it's "healthy."

The dumb stuff he says is very short, inflammatory, and easy to understand, whereas when he talks about stuff in more detail it's meandering and (imo) boring and sometimes difficult to discern any meaningful point. No one who doesn't already agree with him is going to bother with sitting through his explanations.

And in the end, it's fair for people to dislike other people purely because of their personality. There are a lot of people I agree with politically who I think are shitty people because they so often behave in destructive ways. I'm center-left and progressive, and I feel like a lot of the left is horrible *and* wrong, and a whole other portion of them are just horrible. I wish both categories would shut up because when they open their mouth it's counterproductive. For the latter group I could sit there and go, well, what they *mean* is this, and maybe it would be noble in a way to point out how their critics misrepresent them, but they still suck and people are still right to dislike them even if not all the dislike is clearheaded.

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